As usual I’ve got lots of ideas, thoughts, complaints, and confusions rattling around in my brain trying for some sort of cohesion.  I want to say so much, from big things like what is going on in my heart to stupid things like how I love watching The Biggest Loser (and yay for Hulu since I don’t have a TV yet) to finally answering a travel question that Geek Hiker asked me last week.  (Sorry for being such a procrastinator, dude.)

But I was just over at Mel Heath’s blog, reading a very insightful post that she wrote about self-confidence and how one comes across to other people.  At the end of her post she included a link to two voicemails that a guy left on a girl’s phone, that just left me speechless with my jaw dropped to my knees.  I try not too abuse the power of forwarding links because do you really want to know about A True Friend Is or Men Are Like or Cute Puppies Dancing On Cotton Candy Rainbows.  So believe me when I say ya’ll need to hear this.  (And if you already heard it on Mel Heath’s blog then you’re probably laughing just remembering it and want to hear it again.)  And you will also understand the title of this post.

And maybe I’ll get to bed at a decent hour today. And I’ve probably disgusted English teachers across the 50 states with my overuse of the word “and”.  And I don’t care.